Inspired to become a mediator from my nanny who raised nine children in Wanganui

Welcome to the blog

This is a space for honest kōrero (chat) —where I share reflections, and real‑life experiences from my mahi (work) as a mediator.

I write from the heart, drawing on what I’ve learned sitting with whānau (family) in difficult moments.

Inspired by my ‘nanny farm’ (pictured) who raised nine tamariki (children) and countless mokopuna (grandchildren).

Nature as Mediator
Sandra Durston Sandra Durston

Nature as Mediator

Sometimes, the path through conflict feels dark and endless. A stranger’s quiet wisdom invited me to listen—not to words, but to the music of nature surrounding us. This simple shift opened a door to inner peace and strength I hadn’t known I had. In this reflection, I share how nature became my unexpected guide through difficult times—and how it can be yours, too.

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