Ngāti Apa
Ngāti Ruanui
Ngāti Tūwharetoa
Ngāti Raukawa ki te Tonga
Ngāti Apa Ngāti Ruanui Ngāti Tūwharetoa Ngāti Raukawa ki te Tonga
About Sandra
A restorative practitioner and family mediator based in Manawatū-Whanganui, working with people and organisations across Aotearoa.
My approach is informed by the neuroscience and psychology of trauma — because high-conflict situations, especially where there’s been harm, need to be met with an understanding of what the nervous system is actually doing, not just what's being said.
That way of working sits on a long career. Before restorative and family work, I spent twenty years in financial services — seven of them coaching, mentoring and facilitating — learning how people think, decide and shift when the pressure is on. Everything since has been in service of the same thing: walking alongside people through their hardest conversations, in workplaces, whānau and restorative justice across the motu.
When I'm not holding space for others, you'll find me in the vege patch, walking my dogs, or spending time with my whānau.
Background & training
For those who like to know the grounding underneath the work.
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Family Dispute Resolution provider (FDR) — contracted through Fairway Resolution and the Family Dispute Resolution Centre
Restorative Justice facilitator — contracted to Manawatū Restorative Justice Trust and an assessor of new facilitators for Simply Resolution
Resolution Institute accredited mediator and member
Bachelor of Business (Financial Planning and Advice)
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Restorative problem-solving in the workplace, trained with Margaret Thorsborne.
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Ongoing training in trauma-informed and relational approaches — Kathryn Berkett (behavioural neuroscience), Hakomi (somatic mindfulness), Dr Nicola Atwool and Soma Psych (both trauma-informed facilitation), and Authentic Relating workshops, alongside Lead the Way (equine-assisted leadership and communication).